quarter life crisis

I recently celebrated turning 25 and happened to stumble upon this on Facebook a few days before hand. Forever Twenty Something hit it out of the park with this article on their page. Now I will preface this by saying I fit into a lot of these scenarios before I turned 25, but this is still a fun list that depicts mid-twenties life quite accurately.


1. You wear the same clothes you wear to work when going out. This is when you KNOW.

2. You have at least one friend (or acquaintance) who is engaged. Like someone your age could afford a ring. People know who they want to be with for the rest of their lives already. HOW?

3. When watching sports, you often pause and reflect on the fact that you are older than, like, half of the athletes.

4. People have graduated from college who were not even in college when you were in college. Wait, what?

5. You love brunch. But it goes right to your hips.

6. You consider a night on your friend’s couch “going out.” You left YOUR couch. You’re out.

7. You do not have time for hangovers, yet the only way you can avoid them now is by not drinking… which you’re not going to do. You’re only 25 dammit.

8. You are like so totally done with college-style apartments. You need to move into a better area. You need to live in a real apartment. The problem: you can’t afford one. *Weeping in a corner, brb*

9. You can count the number of people you still talk to from college on a regular basis on your fingers. Where did they all go?

10. The thought of making plans on a weekday night makes you cringe. You want me to leave my couch? And stay up late? And pay for drinks? On a weekday?! But I have work tomorrow!

11. You’re not sure if it’s okay to enjoy listening to pop music. Especially very loudly with your windows rolled down while sitting at red lights. And you’ve actually wondered when it will really NOT be okay. Like when will you be looked at like you’re trying to be a cool mom and not a regular mom for listening to 5 Seconds of Summer and Iggy Azalea?

12. You’re not the youngest person in the office anymore, but you’re also not one of the “old people,” so it’s kinda awk. Who do you hang out with? You’re not sure. Is it okay that you went to an EDM concert this weekend? Do you keep that to yourself?

13. The thought of buying a condo/apt/house is real. Some of you may have purchased one already… And the rest are just wondering HOW THE FUCK they will ever save enough money to buy, like, a new computer never mind a fucking house.

14. Sometimes you learn what certain abbreves mean or how to do things on your iPhone from someone younger than you, because apparently you’re not “all up on that stuff” anymore.

15. You sometimes have to take a minute, sit on the couch, put on Elton John, and shut your eyes to get away from your REALLY FUCKING STRESSFUL LIFE… oh that’s just me? Nevermind…

My life is definitely numbers 2, 6 (for sure!), and sometimes 8. I thought this would be the perfect post to celebrate turning 25, which I am reminded is halfway to 50, thanks little brother. 

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ncdr.15 conference in san diego

For the last few days I have been on the west coast soaking up some sun and attending training sessions and seminars. 

I arrived in sunny San Diego on Wednesday morning and I was able to get to the zoo before the opening orientation. That zoo is AMAZING and worth every penny of admission, and in my case a few pennies as souvenirs. I knew that I wanted to see the polar bears while I was there so the first thing I did when I got there was head back towards the polar section. I will say that I wish I had more time to sit and enjoy the animals, but since it was a work trip I had to keep to the schedule. In order to see everything at this zoo you really do need a full day. There are so many paths to walk, animals to see, and educational programs to attend. 

On the second day the conference was the main attraction from 8-5 so the only time I had to explore was lunch and the evening. Luckily we were served lunch outside so I could take advantage of the amazing weather in the afternoon. I decided to venture down to the Gas Lamp District of downtown San Diego for dinner. The Gas Lamp district is very unique. There are many restaurants, shopping opportunities, wine shops, and souvenir stores yet it doesn't feel “touristy”. Petco Park, home to the Padre’s is just a few blocks away so I imagine during the spring/summer months that area of town is very busy and lively.

The third day of the trip included the final day of the conference. The only outside time that I was able to get was an hour at lunch and in the evening. I decided to make the most out of the evening and walk downtown to the USS Midway and Unconditional Surrender statue. I will preface this by saying that the only reason I walked down there was because the restaurant I went to for dinner was right next to the aircraft carrier. I will start with dinner, because everyone loves food. I went to a place called the Fish Market which sits right on the water in San Diego. Dinner was absolutely delicious. I got the grilled Mahi with au gratin potatoes and roasted vegetables. After dinner I knew I didn't want to make the 2.5 miles walk back to the hotel in the dark so I rode in a rickshaw, which is basically a cart that you ride in that’s being pulled by someone on a bike.

The fourth and final day of the trip was just a travel day. The flight was supposed to leave at 1:00pm but got delayed an hour and a half, and I almost missed my connecting flight home (not a great feeling) after being away for four days. In the end I got home very close to the originally scheduled arrival time despite all the delays in the process. 

pinterest project

In today’s age, where everything is digital, it’s nice to walk to the mailbox and see a hand written message inside. I know for me the mailbox is always full of bills (lots of them), junk mail, random coupons (that you know you will never use, but insist on keeping), and sometimes a magazine. I can’t describe that feeling I get when I see that someone has taken the time and mailed me something instead of sending an email or e-card. My mom will frequently send me cards for holidays and the envelopes will have stickers decorating the outside. I am now getting more wedding invitations and save the dates with age and the quick approach of wedding season. I seem to have some sort of attachment to greeting cards, save-the-dates, birth announcements, and anything else in the form of snail mail BUT I never know how to keep them organized. I found this project on Pinterest and tried my hand at storing all of my cards in a binder/book to keep.

First I gathered all my supplies-which really meant I went to Hobby Lobby and spent wayyy too much time browsing the ENTIRE store instead of actually picking up what I really needed. I did manage to get all of the supplies that I would need in just one shopping trip. Here is a list of supplies that I used.

                1. Chipboard with pre-cut holes 

                2. Scrapbook paper

                3. Letter stickers 

                4. Glue

                5. Mod-Podge (Matte) 

                6. Scissors

                7. Hole-punch

                8. Craft rings

                9. Pencil/Pen

I started by laying my scrapbook paper on top of the chipboard so that I could trace the same shape. I used my pencil and just traced the shape onto the scrapbook paper and cut it out using scissors. I did the same thing for both sides of the “book”, so I only traced twice on scrapbook paper and applied it to the outside of the chipboard. At this point I decided to glue the scrapbook paper onto the chipboard, but not finish with Mod-Podge yet.

Then I took all my cards and lined them up from tallest to shortest. You can organize yours anyway that you like, but my OCD-ness made me line them up as so. Once you have them in the order you want all you need to do is take each card and trace the pre-cut holes (on the chipboard) onto your cards. This was probably the most tedious part of the entire job in my opinion. I would trace a few then hole punch them so I didn't get bored from doing a single task repetitively.

Once all your cards have holes punched in them you are ready to assemble the book. All you need to do is start feeding the cards onto the rings in the order you prefer.  Once I finished adding all my cards to the craft rings I used a thin coat of Mod-Podge on the scrapbook paper to keep everything in place. When I say thin….I really do mean a thin layer. If you put too much on the paper will wrinkle up and rip. After the coat of Mod-Podge was dry I applied the letter stickers. If you are having issues with the letters not sticking to the scrapbook paper, you can always add a little glue to keep them in place. As you can see the finished project turned out quite well and I can easily add more cards as I get them!

vacation essentials

Now that the cruise is booked I have been eyeing things that I want for the upcoming vacation. Here is my wish list for all things cruising. 

Mint Eyelet Shorts // iPhone 6 Case // Neutrogena Sunscreen // Ray-Ban Sunglasses // Sandals // Ralph Lauren Fedora

I am loving the floral sandals from Target-which means they are totally affordable-and I will be buying them very soon! They look very comfortable and sturdy enough to walk around the island. I’m a little wary of the way the sandals handle water, but they are way too cute pass up.

The Neutrogena sunscreen is my absolute go-to when it comes to sun protection. This product goes on super smooth and it has a cooling effect, so if you are already sun burnt this sunscreen relieves some of the pain. I will be stocking up on this Neutrogena product not only for the cruise, but for the whole summer.

Last but not least I have asked for the iPhone wallet case as a birthday gift to use while on the cruise. This would be perfect for keeping things like credit cards, room keys, cash, and my phone without having to carrying an entire purse all over the ship. I love that the case looks like a book and is small enough to fit in a pocket if need be. 

Also, our official countdown says that we are 100 days from cruising!

california trip-wedding

My boyfriend’s sister lives in San Francisco and got married in early October last year and we got an invite to the wedding. Although they live in San Francisco, the wedding was in the Carmel Valley area so we had to rent a car from the airport and drive down to the venue. We decided to go out a couple days early since we were invited to pre-wedding festivities, but we also wanted to take advantage of some of the awesome things California has to offer. I knew before flying out to that area of some things I wanted to see and do. Number one on the list was the Monterey Bay Aquarium in Monterey, CA. I love going to zoos and aquariums in any city I travel to and try to squeeze in a visit at any opportunity. I also wanted to stop by the Monterey Fisherman’s Wharf and see some of the sea lions hanging out in the sun.

First stop was the aquarium bright and early in the morning. Our time was a little limited since we had to participate in the wedding celebrations so we were at the aquarium before the doors even opened. I loved the Monterey BayAquarium and it was 100% worth the money for admission. They had a ton of interactive things for people of all ages. We watched the morning penguin feeding, and then took in the Open Sea feeding. After the morning feedings we walked around the aquarium at our leisure and check out some of the exhibits. They had a very cool “hands on” station where you could reach in and touch a skate or sting ray as it swam by and a location where you could touch a variety of sea creatures like starfish, sea cucumbers, and sea urchins. Again, totally worth the somewhat pricey admission and the ticket costs goes towards conservation efforts.

Since we were at the aquarium so early we were able to get lunch on the historic Cannery Row. There are some cool shops and restaurants that line Cannery Row, so we stopped in a place called Tico’s Tacos. It was a very interesting place….it was a cross between a sit down Mexican restaurant and Taco Bell. I could order an enchilada meal and it was ready in less than 10 minutes, and surprisingly tasty. After lunch it was time to head back to the hotel to get ready for the rehearsal dinner that Friday night. I was checking routes to get back to the hotel and realized that we weren't far from 17-mile drive, which goes down the coast of California and passes Pebble Beach.

We took a small detour, and paid the $10.00 entry fee, and drove through the cypress forests along 17-mile drive. There are a few stops along the 17-mile drive that are worth stopping for. We stopped at Seal Rock and we were able to see and hear about a hundred sea lions hanging out together and sun bathing. The next stop we took was to see the oldest cypress tree still standing. If you’re not careful this is definitely one you will miss along the coastal drive. We had to make a U-turn because we drove right pass it. The Lone Cypress Tree is also a must see on the drive. This is a 250 year old tree that is still standing after being scarred by fire. We drove by Pebble Beach Golf Course, but unfortunately didn't stop and made our way back to Carmel Valley for the rehearsal dinner.

On Saturday morning we woke up early and again went to Monterey to see the Fisherman’s Wharf. We had to make this a quick trip because this was the day of the wedding. We went and walked around the wharf for a while then stopped in for lunch. We did get to see some sea lions sun bathing and swimming around the bay. After lunch we headed back to the hotel again to get ready for the wedding. The wedding was absolutely gorgeous and took place in front of picturesque scenery. The dinner was served family style-which I thought was awesome-and it was delicious! Sunday morning we had to get up and catch our flight home so we didn't do anything except go to the airport. The trip was an incredible fun-filled weekend.

restart. refresh. reset.

It has been a long time since my last blog post. In fact since my last post, the temperature has dropped about 60˚ and the blogged missed the ENTIRE season of fall. So let’s get reacquainted shall we!

August: I moved into a new place with my boyfriend, but I was still working at my old job. To save you the math, that means I was driving a total of 139.8 miles each day to get to and from work. Needless to say that didn't last long and I began commuting three days per week and teleworking the other two.

September/October: Even with the commute cut short to three days it was still a haul up and down the interstate, not to mention the cost of filling up your gas tank every two days. That was rough. I still continued the job hunt and was successful in landing some interviews at the company that I wanted to work for, but never really for positions that I truly thought I would enjoy. I took a week long vacation with my family to the beach. I also went to California for a wedding... maybe I should post about it since I have so many pictures. For now here are some to look at. 

November: Finally getting into a routine with commuting and cohabitation. At this point I had an interview at the company I wanted to work for, AND it was a position I could see myself working in for a while. A few days after the interview I got an email saying I was hired and that I needed to fill out new employee paperwork! I knew I still had to commute for 30 days since that was my old company’s termination policy.  I kept trucking….literally down the highway every day to and from work for the entire month of November.

December: After all the excitement of the Thanksgiving holiday died down I was beyond ready to start my new job. Monday December 8^th rolled around and I was so eager to get up (even though it was at 6:30) for new employee orientation. The entire month of December felt like a whirlwind trying to learn a new job while most of the company was taking off for the upcoming holidays.

January/February: The New Year started off awesome because I went to the Winter Classic in Washington D.C. at Nationals Park on New Year’s Day! Best Christmas present EVER! I also decided to begin another “project 365” resolution. Project 365 is where you take a photo of something that represents something you did that day. In order to see my project unfold you can visit my other blog here. 

That's about it on the home front since August. I promise to write more often on this blog instead of giving all my attention to the other blog. 

vacation

So vacation started out a tad rocky. This trip had been paid for in full since December, hotel and all, just keep that in mind. It's Saturday night and we are so excited to wake up early Sunday morning and drive to Sandusky, OH to go to Cedar Point. At this point nothing was stopping us...or so I thought. Cam happened to check his fantasy baseball team online and noticed the "Cedar Point Closed" was trending in national news. SERIOUSLY, I could not make this up. Apparently there was a water main break on the causeway that leads you out to the park, so the entire park had no water! We were informed that the park would be closed Saturday and all day Sunday, which included our hotel. I was beyond bummed that my very first vacation that I planned was now shot to hell because we had no place to stay and we had lost a day in the park.

After my miniature meltdown I called central reservations and they told me that they could not refund my money, but I could use my hotel night and park ticket for another day during the season. This was great and all, but we live over six hours away. There was no way we were coming back another time this summer. We made the decision to go up on Sunday night and stay on the mainland part of the state, wake up early Monday and have two full days in the park. It was absolutely worth it! I had a blast and can't wait to get back to Cedar Point.

We took the GoPro with us and got some pretty amazing footage that my brother edited and cut for us. The finished product can be found here- Thanks again little bro :)

Cedar Point Ferris Wheel

Cedar Point Trip-2014

Top Thrill Dragster